Modern Courtesan
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Dear YS,
There is a guy I am seeing. We have not had sex yet. I want to get to know him better I believe he may be a keeper. Question: He has never had an orgasm during oral sex. I find this a turn on and challenging. He also says he has not had an orgasm while having sex. He has to jerk off to achieve one. Another challenge. What's your advice? BTW..I am very, very good @oral..
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Dear Good @ Oral,
Girl, if you are very very good at oral than I say get down on those hands and knees and give it to him good. What are you waiting for? Wait, okay..you believe he may be a keeper, if so he deserves your skills with elegance.
You keep getting to know him better. He may some intimacy issues that need to be worked out. In the long run, knowing him will do wonders when it comes time to take it to the bedroom. When it is time to get down to grown and sexy business, getting him off guard will heighten his excitement (and yours)! Next time you two are watching television, a movie or even better a sports event this is when you go for the blow (note: if it’s a sports event make sure it’s during half time). As for him not having an orgasm while having sex, there could be many reasons why he is not. Maybe what gets him off more than the act of sex is jerking off. Explore that with him. Assist him as he is wanking away, therefore you will cum together.. so to speak.
Work it, suck it, and stroke it, in no particular order.
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